Sunday, July 12, 2009

She Said: Life Abroad Becomes Tangible

Let me start by offering my sincere apologies to those who were waiting for my weekly post last week. I failed at blogging last week. I had a big test for my class and therefore I didn't find the time to write, my apologies. We have definitely had a lot going on the last couple of weeks.

Yesterday we had the second "wheels up" party for Brian's class. It's funny how hearing people talk about "what they'll do to get their ice cream fix in Nigeria next week" and "their new home in Moldova" makes it so much more real. It is a bigger group of people leaving this time, so it kind of stopped me dead in my tracks and made me realize how tangible this is becoming. It's a bit frightening, and exciting all at the same time.

The going away party yesterday was hosted at our apartment building, so we were busy. We had a great time and I think everyone enjoyed themselves. Brian and I do love entertaining, and the FS is a great outlet for that. Here's a sampling of what we've been up to the past couple of weeks:

Trip to Baltimore-Last weekend we went up to Baltimore to meet up with some really close friends of ours that still live out here. We had an absolute blast, and the aquarium was much more fun than I anticipated. I recommend it to anyone who is in the area. They have tons of sea life there including a huge turtle and lots of sharks. It was fun!

Welcome 146th- The 146th A-100 class has started at FSI and Brian and his colleagues are the welcoming committee for them. Last week we attended a happy hour to welcome them and get to know them. It was really interesting to talk to some of them and to reflect on how much our perspective has changed since March. I remember putting together our bid list and I remember all the emotions, research, thoughts, and discussions that we went through. I listen to all of them doing the same now, and I realized how different my perspective is now faced with our reality in contrast to "what might be." It's not something you can tell someone. It's a very personal journey that each person has to go through. Facing the challenges and the personal questions for your family is the only way to really feel confident about your bids. It was fun to hear about all the possibilities for the new officers.

H Street Country Club- A new hot spot in DC. This is the first indoor mini golf course in Washington, DC. It contains tons of local references, such as "the Awakening", which is transformed with the face of Marion Barry. It is one of the new trendy spots in town in a very transitional neighborhood in NE DC. We played a round of mini golf and then headed downstairs to see if we could reserve a shuffleboard table. We had so much fun I've even mentioned purchasing a shuffleboard table for Venezuela to Brian. We'll see where that goes...

4th of July in DC- Another 4th in DC. I always love celebrating the 4th in the nation's capital. There's something about seeing the spectacular fireworks over the capitol and the monuments that is absolutely magical. We spent the evening having a picnic with some good friends of ours on the Iwo Jima hill and watched the fireworks from there.

Brunch at Founding Farmers- Today we had brunch, again with some friends at a restaurant called Founding Farmers. It's a LEED certified building and the theme is organic and local. It sits right next to the International monetary fund, near where Brian and I went to grad. school. I have to say, I was less than impressed. The food was ok, but it wasn't outstanding and the service was less than

Trips booked- The final thing we did this week was make our plans to come home in October. The date is finalized for our arrival in Caracas and everything is really starting to fall into place. Given that we have unlocked our blog for public viewing, I am not going to post the dates here, but please do reach out to us individually if you'd like to know the dates. We'll be in touch as we get closer to find time to connect with friends/family. I think our families are going to help us out with a going away party so we can have a chance to see lots of extended family and lots of friends all in one place before we go. More details to come.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

He Said: Poco a Poco

A long time ago in one of my posts I talked about how much I was looking forward to getting to the 10th week of my Spanish training because that was supposed to be a point at which things usually "clicked" for most students. Well, it took a little counting today for me to realize that last week was that 10th week, and that I really do feel as though things are "clicking." It is so weird to think about how fast time has flown by since we started this journey. How many great things have occurred, and how much Steph and I have grown through this whole process.

I really have been impressed by the language training at FSI. To think of where I was 10 weeks ago, and where I am now is somewhat unfathomable. I realize that I have been working and studying hard, but I definitely have to hand it to the instructors and the teaching methods used to get me to where I am today.

In one of my recent individualization sessions with my current professor, I recently reviewed the "Imperfect Subjunctive," a verb tense that is often considered horrible by many students because it's used to indicate doubt, unsure action, commands, and other things, but in the past. For example, I recently translated "We had to make a car do three things that day." This sentence seems straightforward, but in Spanish, the word for to make and to do is the same... enter the subjunctive! This form often gets a bad rap (I really didn't think it was that bad), but the real reason I am mentioning it is because it is the final verb tense I will learn in Spanish. It was crazy to walk out of that session realizing that from here on out I will no longer be working on verbs, but rather learning phrases, idioms, and other common language forms, rather than figuring out how to connect anything... basically from here on out I'll be working on review and mastering what I do know. In essence, the road forward. It's an exciting and scary prospect, but I know that deep down I am gearing up and really ready to begin using my skills... funny that this connects to the post from way back when I said I couldn't wait to just get to week 10.

On another note, it has been so nice having Steph here in DC with me to share all of this. It has been so much better having another person in the apartment and someone to share all my stories (and now experiences with). I think we both realize often how this really truly is OUR journey and that we each have a contribution to it. I've definitely enjoyed our shared time at FSI during the day and having lunch together when possible. I'm also grateful to have someone at home to practice my Spanish with, as well as someone to show my homework to (like a school child looking for praise from their parents).

As we begin to watch our new friends head off to their first assignments, it really brings a sense of anticipation for us both. I know we'll be ready, but in the end we need to take this one step at a time and little by little... or as they say in Spanish, "poco a poco."

Sunday, June 21, 2009

She Said: Father's Day Weekend

The past week has been EXTREMELY FULL and it has been a blast. I'm going to try and recap the things that most stand out for the last week for us. By far the most notable event of the week was our trip to Minnesota. We flew in Friday evening and we just got back tonight, Sunday night. We celebrated father's day with our dads and were able to pack a lot of quality family time into a short weekend. Brian and I both agreed that it was one of the best trips we've ever had home. On Saturday, our families got together for a pool party at my parents' house. It was so fun to swim with the kids and have time to just relax with everyone. It was hard to leave and think about heading to class tomorrow, but I think more than anything it has made us really look forward to our next trip home in September.

Aside from that, which truly was the shining event this past week, here are some of the things we've been up to:
Connecting with old friends - Last week we went to a gathering of some of my old grad. school friends. It was great to reconnect with classmates after being away for a while. It honestly felt like we had never been apart and I was reminded of one of the reasons I absolutely loved living in DC...people who are interested in the same kinds of things I am. In addition to connecting with grad. school friends, I randomly discovered that one of my high school friends now manages a running store in Cleveland Park (right by where Brian and I used to live). We had a good laugh when we saw each other and vowed to keep in touch. We are now good facebook friends :-)

Indian food - Brian and I ventured out to find a fantastic Indian restaurant near our apartment. It was our first time having Indian food in a restaurant. We had had Indian food served in homes, but just never from a restaurant. We really liked it Brian was particularly fond of the spicy flavors. I think we will be returning soon for more curry. It was awesome!

FS Prom - Some of you have already heard/seen pictures of what the foreign service officers have affectionately coined "the prom." Basically it was a cocktail party put on by Brian's class with the extra money they had from their dues. It was a blast!! It gave me an excuse to buy a new cocktail dress (which I'm sure I will use many more times once we're overseas) and everyone had fun getting dressed up and getting together. The event was put on at The City Tavern Club, which is a private club in Georgetown set in an old row house. It was a really neat venue. If you haven't seen our pics. and you're interested, just let me know and I can send them your way.

Wheels up party #1 of 91- We attended our first "wheels up party". Wheels up parties are the going away parties A-100 classes host for each other. Ok, I don't really think there will be 91 parties, but that's how many new officers there are from Brian's class. Brian's first classmates will be heading out this week. One leaves for Sudan, another for Saudi Arabia and a third for India. It was exciting and surreal all at the same time. I could tell they were a bit in shock as I'm sure we all will be as we face our new realities.

My First Interview - More to come on this as I don't have a lot of details yet. I interviewed for a position at the Embassy working with the English Language teaching program as a coordinator. I would help coordinate young Americans that come down to Venezuela to teach English. It sounds like a very interesting job. I didn't think the interview went very well, so we'll see what happens, but I should have more info. by Wednesday of this week.

Exam - I had my first test in Congen. I got 100%, so I guess I didn't need to worry about passing. Cross your fingers for me for this week. I have another test on Thursday.

Venezuela Happy Hour - On Thursday night we had an opportunity to speak with some people who just came back from Caracas. We got a lot of information. It helped me to begin to get an idea of what life will be like down there. I have to admit, we were a little overwhelmed by some of the warnings they gave us about crime in Caracas. It sounds like there is a lot of "crime of opportunity" and you really have to employ as many safeguards as possible. I think we can really only assess the situation once we're on the ground, but it is good for us to know going into it. Overall, all of them said that they greatly enjoyed their time down there and that overall it was a good experience. It sounds like there will be lots of fun embassy parties and trips and like it is easy to travel while you are there.

That's the update for this past week. It was great to see those of you we had a chance to see this weekend. Hope to connect with more of you while we're home in September. Take care!